June 9, 1961. Running time: 14:03. Life is all we all have; our lives cannot be lived for us. Thurman warns of parents who force children to conform to their lives. He councils us to focus on living our lives we become good at making choices that reflect who we are and give us time for professions and for enjoying the overlooked things and people around us. The result in us is understanding and compassion and the blessings of God.